Sunday, March 22, 2009

Confidence

I attended nco course( a coarse that organized by SJAM) yesterday and today. Honestly, I did not enjoy it much. But, through this coarse, I find out that amc girls are too shy to talk in front. Not because they are not good in English or BM, not because their view points are not good( actually I found that their points are quite good but they do not know how to say it out). Then, what lead this problem? The environment lead this.

Nobody dare to raise up their hand and nobody dare to show out their confidence because they know their friends will say something behind her.

" Aiya, she really likes to show off...."

To avoid this, they choose to be silence. Later and later, they could not talk in front of people because they are not trained to so, they do not have the confidence to do so!

In my opinion, teachers should always give advise to students and train them during lessons. Are teachers need to pick up the responsibilities to train us? I think yes. As a claster school, I think teacher should not only make sure the students are good in their studies and coco, but also ensure the students can always be the leader. To be a leader, we should gain our confidence first. Of coarse, students should also gain their confidence by her own.

2 comments:

  1. i think ur coarse spell wrongly.
    i think de correct spelling for it is 'course'.

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  2. Yes, I have to agree that most of you are and were quiet and it really make me upset ;) don't care what people say but if you think you are doing the right thing JUST DO IT !

    If you shut up and don't say anything then others will not know what you are thinking. By speaking up, you will be able to voice out what you think and improvement can be made.

    Also don't be shy to ASK. "ASK AND YOU WILL BE GIVEN"

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